Overwhelmed: What To Do When You Have More Than You Can Handle
by Ron Carlson, Lights On Business
Home of the 5 Minute Business Builder
Life is a series of challenges to be managed. In between challenges, life can seem easy, but the next challenge is always on the way. When faced with too many challenges at once, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed and to believe that you have more going on in your life than you can handle.
Regardless of the size or the number of challenges you may face, the solution is the same: Ignore those things you can’t influence and spend your time and energy implementing solutions for those things you can influence.
A level head, a solid plan, persistence, and assistance can overcome any challenge life may bring.
Try these strategies to lighten your load:
#1 ~ Acknowledge that you’re feeling overwhelmed.
There’s nothing to be gained by ignoring your situation. You’ll be in a better position to deal effectively with your life when you acknowledge the reality of the situation. When you recognize that something is wrong, you can begin to do something about it.
#2 ~ Take a time out.
If you’re at work, slip away for a quick walk. If you have the freedom to do so, try taking a weekend trip. A change of scenery can make the challenges in your life seem more manageable.
#3 ~ Make a plan.
When you’re feeling overwhelmed, it’s easy to spend too much time focusing on the challenges in your life. While this is a natural response, it leads to feeling even worse! Rather than focusing on your issues, try focusing on solutions.
● Imagine your friend was facing the same challenges, what advice would you give to them?
● Make a plan to move beyond your current situation. What solutions can you find? How will you implement them?
● A simple change of focus can alter your perspective and your mood. Do you think you’ll feel better focusing on your problems or the solutions?
#4 ~ Distract yourself for a few hours.
Read a good book or take a friend to the movie theater. Now is the perfect time to do all the things you usually do to avoid working!
#5 ~ Talk to someone.
You could speak to a coworker, a friend, family member, or a coach. Who would you call on in your life to talk you down off a ledge? Pick up the phone and include someone else in your current situation.
#6 ~ List the good things in your life.
Things might be rough at the moment, but there are plenty of things in your life that you can be grateful for. Make a list of them and reflect on the many blessings in your life.
#7 ~ Laugh.
Few things feel better than laughing. What makes you laugh? Rent a funny movie or spend time with someone that always finds a way to make you giggle. Who is the funniest person in your life?
Remember, you have plenty of options when you think you have more to deal with than you can handle.Life isn’t always sunshine and rainbows. When life becomes especially challenging, feeling overwhelmed can dampen your spirit and hide the best solutions from you.Admit to yourself that you’re struggling and begin looking for solutions. Allow yourself a few distractions when you need them. Reach out to others and avoid trying to solve everything on your own. Soon, you’ll be back on a more enjoyable path!
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